Can we mediate if we disagree on custody?
Yes. Disagreements are common, and custody and parenting schedules are among the things couples work out in mediation. Both of you need to take part voluntarily and negotiate in good faith. The mediator does not decide who is right or force either of you to accept an agreement.
Arrangements you can consider
Every family is different. We help you customize a parenting plan that takes everyone’s needs into account, especially your children’s.
- Sole custody. One parent makes decisions about medical care, education and activities.
- Physical or residential custody. Where the children live most of the time, with time shared with the other parent.
- Bird’s nest. The children stay in the home and the parents take turns living there.
- Shared parenting. Equal time with the children, in many forms.
Mediation may not be right where there are safety concerns or coercion, or where one of you is unwilling to negotiate.
[A two-sentence quote from Stephen on working through custody disagreements]